やめたら負け
仕事に失敗して同僚に負けた…失敗したから友人に負けた…と考えがちだが、失敗＝負けではなく。失敗してそのときは相手に負けたと思ったとしても、その失敗から学び、身に付けるもの、学べることを学べれば、それが栄養になって将来の自分の中で生きるのだ。
しかし、そのトライしている物事自体をやめてしまったら、もう何も残らない。ライバルは競争相手がひとり減ってラッキー、あなたは何の改善もなく、手元にはこれまでの努力で得たものが時間が経つにつれ遠くなっていくのを見るばかり。
失敗は成功の母。だから、失敗は負けではない。その時は恥をかくかもしれないが、将来を考えてみればそれは有益だ。何が一番つまらないかというと、これまでの努力を一切やめること。継続しないこと。やめたら負けだ。何も常に100％エンジンをふかすことはない。1％のパワーでもいい、動かしていればいい。それが未来の成功につながる。
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Quitting, Not Mistaking is Losing
You often think that making a mistake is wrong and being defeated if you has an opponent. The result shows you your inferior to the opponent because he/she won the case and you lose it. However, it is not true. Making a mistake and lost the game is not your losing. In case of quitting the game, you are absolutely a loser.
As many of you realize that what you mistake leads to success if you learn something important in that matter. There is definitely essence in any failed case. If you can find room for improvement, that effort refines your skills and experiences. Therefore, losing is not losing. If you run away from the matter that you made a mistake and learn nothing form the lesson, you will never improve in that matter. You will have been the same in the future, which might include possibility to make the same mistake. That's real losing.
Making a mistake is fine. Do not afraid of doing so. You can learn from the lesson to improve. In a short run, you look to be defeated by the opponent but nobody know in the future. Quitting the matter that you are trying will be no results in that thing. Your opponent is just happy with it because the number of his/her competitors reduces!
Never quitting and keep going your efforts in any form. That's the essence of becoming a winner in the future.
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